People cannot be helped when they feel comfortable playing the victim. Even when childhood trauma is legitimate, continuing to blame people who changed long ago becomes self‑sabotage. They refuse to forgive and are unforgiving people who destroy themselves over time.
Matthew 6:14-15
“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”
Meanwhile, spiritual fragmentation sets in — the soul begins to split into conflicting identities, conflicting and blurred history, and conflicting loyalties to strangers while they have for years been destroying themselves and their own children and family in the process.
I know all too well, wisdom is from above and I have lived through everything I teach.
No mentor, no higher education biblical teacher, no family, no friends, and no allies — just Jesus Christ, His anointing, and life experiences.
1 John 2:27
“As for you, the anointing you received from him remains in you, and you do not need anyone to teach you. But as his anointing teaches you about all things and as that anointing is real, not counterfeit—just as it has taught you, remain in him.”
And like I said, spiritual fragmentation grows in people who refuse any accountability. They refuse to see that they have caused immeasurable pain to the very people they claim to love, and they pretend they have done more than they actually have — even though they have had an army supporting them all their lives. —They have never learned to stand on anything solid except their pain, instead of facing those demons.
They medicate and sabotage every relationship that is real, including their closest family members and loyal advocates. —while killing themselves and crying Woe is me.
Yet doing nothing to help themselves.
Take a look:
Hebrews 12:11
“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”
But those who refuse it and God’s wisdom continue to deteriorate in their minds, offended by the truth that could save their lives.
Much love and bold truth,
Sister Christine 🛡️✝️